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REmindingYOU COACHING FOR MEN AND DADS NAVIGATING DIVORCE AND FATHERHOOD
Real talk and real results from a dad who has lived it.
DIVORCE DOESN'T HAVE TO MEAN LOSING YOURSELF AS A FATHER
Doyin helps divorced and separated dads stay present, grounded, and engaged through the hardest, most gut-wrenching transition of their lives, drawing on clinical family systems training and his own experience raising his daughters as a single dad.
IT'S NOT AN ACCIDENT THAT YOU'RE HERE
Doyin is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and a single dad.
ReMindingYOU started because he lived through the thing he now coaches men through: the fear of being a part-time father, the guilt that shows up when you least expect it, the anger you don’t know where to put, and the question underneath it all — am I going to be a good dad through this?
You are not your worst day. You don’t have to lose your kids to lose your marriage.
Doyin built ReMindingYOU to remind men of that truth when it’s hardest to remember and to help them stay present, grounded fathers on the other side of it.
ARE YOU A DAD WHO NEEDS THIS? LET'S FIND OUT
You're separated, divorcing, or newly single, and your relationship with your kids has gotten harder to protect
You feel guilty, angry, lost, or numb, and you're tired of pretending you're fine
You want to stay an engaged, present dad, not just a Saturday visitor
You're open to doing real work, but traditional therapy hasn't felt like the right fit
You want a coach who's been where you are, not just studied it
You're struggling with balancing fatherhood, work, and loneliness (when your kids aren't with you)
IMPORTANT NOTE: This is not a substitute for therapy or mental health treatment. If you’re navigating trauma, depression, or a mental health crisis, coaching isn’t the right starting point. See the FAQ below.
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT
Most divorce resources are built for logistics — custody schedules, co-parenting apps, legal paperwork. Almost none of them address what’s actually happening inside a father during this time.
Family-Systems Informed
Grounded in the same clinical training Doyin uses professionally, applied to your relationship with your kids and your co-parent.
Lived Experience
Doyin coaches from having done this himself, not just studied it in a textbook.
Action, Not Just Insight
Every session moves you toward something concrete: a conversation, a boundary, a way of showing up this week.
PROGRAM: THE PRESENT FATHER
A structured 3-month, 1:1 coaching program to help you move from surviving the divorce to leading your family through it.
What's Included
- Weekly 50-minute 1:1 coaching sessions (12 sessions total)
- Text and voice-memo support between sessions for real-time situations
- A personal framework for staying present through custody transitions, hard conversations, and co-parenting conflict
- A private check-in at the end of the program to set your next chapter
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
No. Coaching is forward-focused and action-oriented — it’s not a substitute for psychotherapy or mental health treatment. I’m a registered AMFT in my clinical work, but as your coach, I’m not acting as your therapist, and we won’t be diagnosing or treating mental health conditions. If it becomes clear you’d benefit from therapy, I’ll help you find the right referral.
That’s great! Keep it up, because many clients do both. Therapy is for the deeper emotional work, and coaching is for the practical, forward-moving support of staying present as a dad.
This is 1:1, personalized to your specific situation — your kids, your co-parenting dynamic, your week. It’s not general advice; it’s built around what’s actually happening in your life right now.
One weekly 50-minute session, plus whatever time you want to use the between-session support. Most clients find it fits around work and parenting schedules.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGURE THIS OUT ALONE
Book a free 20-minute Discovery Call to see if this is the right fit for — no pressure, no sales pitch, just a talk between one single dad to another.
ReMindingYOU LLC Coaching services provided are distinct from psychotherapy and are not a substitute for mental health treatment. Doyin Richards is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMFT) in his clinical practice; coaching services are offered separately from any clinical/therapeutic relationship.
DOYIN’S DIRECTION
As a TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and suicide survivor, Doyin provides a wealth of lived experience that will benefit your life immensely.